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She Got Her Domme On…
Last night was a further night of setting things straight. As we mentioned in the “reset” post, Charmer decided that things were just not where they needed to be, so she was resetting our D/s and FLR...
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Of Rulings, War Games, Orgasms and Denial
I had started formulating this post in my head while I was in the shower this morning. It was going to start with lots of silly sexy thoughts and images from yesterday. And I will get to those. But...
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Mashup: D/s, Flirting, Getting the Stink-Eye and More
We had a pretty laid-back weekend, and, as is Charmer’s style, that meant that we also had lots of time to flirt and play. Again, I’ve learned new things about myself. While we were lounging around on...
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Quick Snake Household Update
We are still alive. Well, those of you who follow us on Twitter already know that, but for those of you who just read this… I know we haven’t updated for almost two weeks but we are still here. We’ve...
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Exploring Sub-Space – Pain and Pleasure
We’ve been exploring more about sub-space – that place you can get to where the world melts away and all of a sudden the sensations change – often from pain to pleasure, or as we’ve just begun to...
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Sex on the Terrace
On a pretty much impromptu decision, we decided we were going to have the weekend night (Friday) free and wanted to have a mini-vacation. We picked one of our favorite spots here in town and managed...
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Mouthy Subs and Spankings
Last week was off just enough to be annoying. None of it huge stuff, but it just added up like life usually does. We own our own business and our daughter works for us. That’s a good thing for her...
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Rising and Falling Submissive Headspace
I’m constantly amazed at how well Charmer has come to know me. I keep thinking I’m getting a handle on managing how I present myself and she spins right around and reads me like a book. I don’t think...
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Sub-Blocked
All day she’d been teasing me, telling me that that night she’d be exercising her Domme side, something I was really looking forward to and, since it’d been so long since we’d had time to ourselves, I...
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The Song That Kept Looping Through My Brain…
As most of you know, Snake has been caged and chaste since July 23rd. I decided that he needed an extended period of time locked to put him back into his subby mindset. He wrote about it here. Since...
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On Being Horngry
Denial and orgasm control are funny things. With a cage, enforced chastity becomes a thing of power exchange and control. She holds the power to grant or deny orgasms, period. Yes, I realize it...
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Vegas Day 1…Can I?
Sitting here and waiting for breakfast to arrive while looking out at the Vegas strip. This has always been one of our favorite places to visit. When we were in college, it was only a five hour drive...
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Continuing to Learn About Myself, Feeling a Bit Like a Puppet
It’s really strange to be “my age” and be learning big things about yourself. Sure, no one likes to stop learning and I hope that it never happens, but to be having these pretty surprising things come...
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TIL: Attitudinal Cycles and Subbie Head-Space
Almost makes it sound scholarly, yes? “Attitudinal” – basically how to keep your head on straight when you have the chance to see how orgasms can impact your attitude. My personal sweet spot is that...
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Wait. What?
[SSC: Just a warning….I was laughing so hard that I almost fell out of my chair when I was reading this. So fair warning: strap in…] I don’t know if you’ve seen the movie “Inside Out” from...
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What Is It About Denial/Control Anyway?
More often than not, when I am talking with someone about all this stuff we do, the conversation comes around to why denial would be something that would OK. Or, more accurately in our own case,...
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Another Scrabble Challenge
Snake has been asking about another game. We haven’t played an official one since the beginning of June so I guess it’s about time to drive him insane again… The Scrabble tiles are back. You remember...
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That Feeling When She Sinks Down on Me
So, there I was. Flat on my back, raring to go. Charmer had that look in her eyes that she was really looking forward to being on top and I have to admit to loving it too. I love that feeling when...
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Objectification
When I walk in the door on Friday afternoon, you’re there to greet me. You have the grin on your face. The one that says you’re plotting and scheming and are in a place where you’re interested in one...
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Challenge: To the Edge and Back
Yet another great challenge idea that I wanted to share with you from Charmer’s mind – I’m not sure how she comes up with these, but they are both fun and intense. We seem to learn something every...
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